Internalizing People’s Destructive Behavior

You might be one of those people who knows exactly who you are and one day feel so confident in yourself, then the next be shaken by someone’s destructive actions. Once we are hurt by the person we really love those question’s start flooding in; “How could they have done that to me?” “Is there something wrong with me?” “Am I just not good enough?” “I guess nobody is ever going to love me.” “People are always going to leave me”. The voice of accusation starts screaming lies into our heart’s and it shakes our identity.

It is one of the most painful things when someone you love reflects their own insecurities onto you and we partner with those lies that we tell ourselves about other peoples destructive behavior. This episode is meant to encourage you that the saying “it’s not you, it’s me” can actually be true at times. When we are connected to our identity and the core of who we are, other people’s judgments & actions will not have a landing strip on our heart’s any longer. We will be able to look at them for where they truly are at in their life and not let it take anything away from WHO YOU ARE!